A technology consultant living in Washington, DC and FI/RE-ing in 8 years with $760k

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Occupation: Technology Consultant

Industry: Financial Services

Location: Washington, DC

Age: 27

Salary: 95K/year with bonus averaging around 1.2K

Ethnicity: White

Education: Masters

Current financial situation: Single, living with two roommates

What was your first job? Why did you get it? How much did you get paid?

Babysitting, I was getting paid $16/hr and loved working with kids

Growing up how did you learn about personal finance? Was money talked about openly? How did it make you feel?

One reason I've been motived to reach FI is that my parents really didn't teach me much about personal finance. I once asked my dad how to make a budget, and he told me he didn't know because they never had one. I personally don't feel my parents make the best choices with their money (or at least, they do not make the choices I would).

What was the moment or event that made you realize you needed to start getting your money together?

Probably at some point later in high school; I knew by then that I did not want to worry about money as often as my parents did (or keeping up with appearances), so I chose to get a business degree rather than to pursue and English or art degree in order to obtain a more stable, secure income post-college.

Let’s Talk Money

Current Net Worth: $238,175

HSA: $4,275

Investments: $89,400

Vested 401k: $78,000 (about $5,000 unvested in 401k)

Pension: $6,700

High Yield Savings: $20,000

Checking: $700

Roth IRA: $39,100

Debt: No debt, but ~$5,000 of my 401k is unvested, so if I leave my job before the vesting date, I will have to give that amount back. The ~$5,000 includes contributions and earnings from my 401k match.

Expenses:

Rent: $952

Internet & Phone: $0 (covered by my employer)

Electric: ~$40

Water & Trash: $120 every 3 months

Spotify: $9.99

Libro.FM: $14.99

Club Membership: $12

Donations: $52

Computer & Phone Security Software: $39.99/year

Savings Rate: 59% after tax

Investing strategy: Max out all tax-efficient accounts (HSA, IRA, 401k) and invest the rest in my brokerage account up to 55%. Last year I saved/invested more than normal because I wasn't traveling, but this year I decided to begin a sinking fund where I will put 5% of my paycheck each month to save for large purchases/luxury items (future trips, spa visits, art classes, etc.).

Your FI/RE Story

FI/RE number: FI : $762,000 ; Fat FI $1,070,000

FI/RE type: My Fat FI number is less than $100,000/yr, but I really only spend about $25,000 of my pay check per year and do not feel limited in anyway, so I felt that $40,000/year was a realistic FAT FI number for me. I'm also planning to eventually move to a lower COL area once I retire (DC is considered VHCOL).

Years until FI/RE: ~8.4, but I may work a little longer to reach my FAT FI number

FI/RE location: Ideally Richmond or Charlottesville, but I'm open to other areas. I've considered the Great Lakes region due to global warming, as I believe that area will be best prepared, and current COL expenses there are so cheap compared to the rest of the country.

How did you first hear about FI/RE?

My ex-boyfriend, he sucked and gave terrible FI/RE advice, but at least I gained knowledge of this movement from that relationship and was able to do my own research to make better choices

Why do you want to reach Financial Independence/Retire Early? What keeps you motivated on this long journey?

I have a few friends who are significantly older than I am, and they've all had a story about a friend who lost his/her/their job after age 40 and was unable to find a new one. To me, achieving FI would provide security, should this situation ever happen to me, or should I face unexpected retirement. Additionally, I like the idea of FI/RE because I believe it will give me more time to pursue my many hobbies (reading, hiking, volunteering), most of which are difficult to fit in during the week while I have a full time job.

In what ways have you cut back your spending? In what ways have you started mindfully spending more?

I was already naturally frugal before finding out about FI/RE, but I definitely contribute a larger % of my income to my retirement accounts than before. Additionally, I think I'm a pretty mindful spender by nature, but typically I don't buy anything unless my mind keeps going back to it. For example, if I go into a store and look at their clothes, I will never buy an item the first time I see it. Instead, I'll typically leave and wait to see if I develop a craving for that item, where I find myself thinking about the item a lot. Then I'll come back for it. I do the same thing with restaurant food; if I find I'm still craving pasta or a burrito after a few days, I'll go ahead and treat myself.

What do friends and family have to say when you tell them your plan to achieve FI/RE? Are they supportive?

FI/RE isn't something I talk about with a lot of people. I try not to talk about money with my friends, as most work as artists, researchers, or academics, but there's definitely an unspoken understanding that I am making more than they are. No one seems bitter about this though.

My parents think my goals are admirable but unrealistic if I plan to have a house or children some day (I have already decided that I don't want either if I have to compromise the security of FI, but my parents think I will change my mind).

Are you doing anything to achieve FI/RE faster?

I definitely do not need to live with roommates and could afford my own place if I wanted, but one-bedroom apartments in this area cost an average of $2,200/month (at the low end, they are still $1,700/month). By living with roommates, I am able to put $1,000/month towards savings and investments. Additionally, I take advantage of all the benefits my company offers.

What does retiring early (or financial independence) mean to you? What will you do once you FI/RE?

Write a book, go on long multi-day hikes, volunteer, get a dog, cook more, workout more, relax.

FI/RE Advice

Any advice you'd give to someone who wants to pursue FI/RE, especially if it seemed hard or unattainable?

Really think about what you actually need to be happy. Realize that material things, like hardwoods floors and marble countertops, or that pair of $100 sunglasses you bought for yourself in the moment may spark joy initially, but won't in the long term. Think about what provides you happiness again and again.

What is the biggest thing you learned about money on this journey?

It's important to be thoughtful and purposeful with your money.

Have you made any money mistakes or learned any lessons on the way that you wish you knew before?

Not maxing out my 401K each year, and believing there was such a thing as putting too much money in your 401K.

What are your favorite FI/RE resources that you'd recommend to someone just getting started?

Quit Like a Millionaire is a great book! The author really simplifies the process, and does so in a funny way.


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What I Spent in March 2021

It's that time of month again! It's time to get into my monthly recap and overview. It's not only the end of the month of March but it's also the end of Q1 which is a big finance month—dividend payouts, lots of good stuff. I’m excited to share with you a look behind the scenes of my March spending.

March Money Wins

Let’s start off with some money wins in March. First, I had my contract extended! I'm a contractor. I've been at a company for a year now and I really, really love this job. I love my boss. I love my team that I'm on. I have a really great work-life balance and it’s a six-figure contract. I really wanted it to be extended for another year. You can be extended for up to a two-year cycle when you contract.

I had two weeks left and I wasn’t sure if I was going to be extended or not and you can't talk to your boss about it. They have to talk to the agency who talks to another agency who talks to your agency about extending you. So I couldn't ask her directly, but I was like, hey it's coming up on a year. I know you can't talk to me about extending, but let me know if I should take a 3 month vacation. *wink, wink*

She was like take PTO if you need, but don’t go anywhere! So that's how I knew I was getting extended. Then, I finally got the official confirmation a week before it was over. So that was super exciting, which brings me to my next point.

I maxed out my 401k! Since I got this extension I could finish contributing $19,500 to my 401k for 2021. I was concerned that potentially this contract would be over and I would not have a 401k at all until I found my next job, which who knows how long that would take. That’s why I front loaded it as much as possible in the case that I did not get this extension. However, I got it and was able to max it out in March. Big money wins!

Income

Let's dive a little bit deeper into my actual March numbers.

💰 Paycheck: $8,409.08

I had a high paycheck this month due to an extra paycheck with the way the calendar and pay period fell. Therefore, I had a little bit more than I usually do at my regular nine-to-five job.

👗 Resale: $25

I sold two items on Poshmark this month, but I really don't do that much “poshing” as they call it. You're supposed to actively re-share stuff, constantly post new items, and like and engage with other members. 

I don’t know how people do it as their full-time job. Frankly, I don't see how it's worth it hourly because it's so time intensive. For that amount of effort and that low of return, it's not worth my time. Plus, I don’t find it fun. 

I leave things up and periodically I'll send out offers if I see there's been a bunch of new likes on an item. I try to sell it by dropping my price to the likers and offering discounted shipping. Overally, my Poshmark sales are pretty sporadic.

🎨 Freelance: $0

I did $0 this month. I have one more job that I'm still slowly wrapping up from 2020. It has been dragging on. I've been building a company’s Squarespace website. For freelance stuff I’m only taking on jobs over $3,000.

If you know of anybody who wants me to put together their Squarespace website at that rate, I’m happy to do it! It's very time intensive to go back and forth and deal with clients when I do design work all day at my day job, so I’m only taking extra projects worth my time.

💵 Cash back: $52.28

I randomly checked my Dosh App (link for your first $5) and I had over $30 sitting in it. I like it SO much more than Rakuten, Fetch, or Ibotta because it’s so passive. No browser extensions to click or receipts to scan. All you have to do is link your credit card and shop as normal, and eventually you’ll build up cash in there. Might as well take advantage of free money! The minimum cash out is $25 and it goes directly to your Venmo.

I like that they have a lot of local restaurants that give you 5% cash back. When you order directly from the restaurant it helps them more than ordering from Postmates, Uber Eats, or that type of app. I heard it’s best to order directly and if it’s on the Dosh list, you can get some money back too. Win, win!

The Drop app is also good for this. It’s very passive and has some big name brands you can shop at and earn cash back though card linking.

📈 Interest: $4.71

I keep my 6 month emergency fund in Ally high yield savings account and I also have a high yield checking account at Wealthfront. Collect all the interest!!!

🤑 Dividends: $229.82

Big dividend payouts typically happen at the end of quarters. So dividends were extremely high this month!

🍯 Millennial Money Honey: $16.34

The majority of this was from my my Etsy shop. But also this month someone bout me a coffee on Buy Me A Coffee, which goes to support all the free content I put out. I’ve love Phils Coffee and recently tried this rose latte, which was amazing. I love floral tasting things. (Lavender Salt & Straw ice cream ::drools:: IYKYK) I so appreciate everyone who has supported my work AND fueled my caffeine addiction!

🌟 Other: $5

My uncle sent red pocket money for Chinese New Year last month and I just got the money now. Gong Hay Fat Choi!

Expenses

For some context, I know you're probably not new here, but in case you somehow landed on this article and you are, hey, what's up!? Go subscribe to my Youtube channel 🙃. I live at home with my parents. Mom and Dad don’t make me pay rent or utilities. I love and appreciate them SO much! It's been really great and I 💯 recommend living at home if you get along with your parents. Not like we can go anywhere anyway right now, so might as well hang out with fam.

So that being said, yeah, I don't pay anything in housing or utilities. 

🏡 Rent: $0

⚡️ Utilities: $0

🚖 Transportation: $0

Not going anywhere!

🥦 Groceries: $40.07

🍽 Food: $175.45

I was still down in Los Angeles this first week or so in March. It was there that I learned about my contract extension and splurged on taking myself and a friend out to sushi dinner to celebrate. It was so worth spending on!

🍹 Drinks: $0

👩‍💻 Work: $36.98
TubeBuddy to help grow my YouTube channel made my work expense pretty steep last month, but this month it was just my usual cloud storage and Bonsai.

Bonsai is the best freelancing software. It puts together contracts, has templates for project proposals, and makes invoice for clients very easy to pay. Bonsai makes me look so professional (read: EXPENSIVE). I highly recommend checking it out if you're a freelancer or solo entrepreneur.

🍿 Entertainment: $58

I almost forgot about this expense! I went to the Huntington Botanical Gardens over in Pasadena and paid for a ticket for me and my friend. Not only was it beautiful to walk around the Japanese and Chinese gardens, my friend also took a bunch of pics of me that I’ve been using excessively as thumbnails for Youtube and on my Instagram. He’s a great photographer!

✈️ Travel: $0

🚙 Car: $0

🏥 Health: $0

🛍 Shopping: $45.26

I went thrifting and got myself two tops, a black crop button up and a white silk button up, and a pair of black strappy heels that I’ve been looking for. They miraculously fit my wide duck feet, so I had to get them.

I also somehow ended up paying for all of my little sister’s stuff. If you saw what I Spent in a Week in LA, you’ll know my sister finesses me to pay for stuff. She’s doing a no spend year for clothes, but it doesn’t count if others buy stuff for her…so I did. She’s a smart cookie!

💝 Gifts: $20

I donated some money to my girl, Cinneah, over at @fly.nanced and Gigi, of @firstgenmoneymusings for putting on an Instagram Live about black creators in the personal finance space. It was extremely informative and kind of them to take the time and energy to educate other on this, so I supported them monetarily.

Miscellaneous: $0

Savings

👵 401K: $4,189.18

I maxed all $19,500 of this out, so it will drop to $0 next month!

🏦 Savings: $3,300

I’m saving up a little fund to pay my taxes, which I still haven’t paid yet. Fortunately they got extended. I am definitely going to owe because I did not pay anything on the $20,000 I made doing freelance design work last year. 💰IRA: $0

📈 Brokerage: $0

💵 SEP IRA: $0

I’m working with a CPA to help me file my taxes for 2020 since I had some complicated things I messed up on. He said I’ll be able to still contribute to a SEP IRA for the freelance work I did. We shall see. In April I’m going to really get it together!

🏥 HSA: $0

I don't actually have an HSA this year 😭. I don't qualify for one, which really sucks.

💸 Checking: $425

Checking is my income minus the rest of my savings accounts. I don’t have a separate category for that under my savings column in my money tracking spreadsheet.

Monthly Totals

🤑 Income: $8,742.23

💸Expenses: $365.78

🏦 Savings: $8,376.45

📊 Savings Rate: 96%

This is the highest rate I've ever saved. It's insane. Again living at home and being in a pandemic, I'm saving so much money. Bless my parents. I really truly could not do this without them. 

The whole no rent was never really discussed when I moved in. I asked my mom the other day if she felt comfortable with that. Her response was, “If you were to pay me rent I’d save it all for you so that you could put it towards buying your own house.”

I really think that is a reflection of my parents values. They want to set us up for even more success than they had. I feel the same way about the future I’m creating for my unborn children. They know the housing market is insane in California and they're really trying to help me. I'm so appreciative of that.

This was such a fire month for me. I really owe it all to my parents, truly. All of my saving is really only made possible thanks to them. Overall, Q1 was good to me. I achieved all my financial goals (although I failed at my non-financial ones)…more on that next week!

I hope you guys found this March Money Recap useful, insightful, interesting or at least pleasantly voyeuristic. If you haven’t already subscribe to my channel below so we can all get rich and retire early together!


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A 31 year-old (former) small business marketer living in Florida and currently on FI/RE

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Occupation: I graduated with my BS in journalism back in 2012, but I quickly pivoted to marketing shortly thereafter. Because I worked mostly for small businesses throughout my career, I had to wear a lot of hats — designer, photographer, social media manager, communications specialist, networker, etc.

Industry: Marketing

Location: Florida

Age: 31

Salary: I'm currently retired, although I do a few freelance projects I enjoy. My peak salary was probably close to $80,000 though.

Ethnicity: White

Education: Bachelors

Current financial situation: I worked toward FIRE with my husband. I left full-time work at the end of 2019, and he stepped away from full-time work at the end of 2020.

What was your first job? Why did you get it? How much did you get paid?

My first job in high school was at Sears Portrait Studio. I think I started at $6.67 an hour, and I was able to increase that to $7.50 an hour before leaving there to become a waitress, which paid way more. I waited tables through college making over $20 an hour including tips and transitioned into freelance journalism halfway through my education. The hourly pay on that was lower, but I knew I needed to make $300 a week to pay my bills, and my boss helped make sure I had enough gigs to meet that requirement. My first full-time job out of college paid $18 an hour, and then I moved into a salaried position making about $37,000 per year soon after. These all kind of fit the bill as "first jobs" to me.

Growing up how did you learn about personal finance? Was money talked about openly? How did it make you feel?

My family did not hide the fact that money was tight. I knew going to college was going to be a solo venture. My original goal as a young adult was just to be financially solvent enough that I didn't have to worry about the price of a new tube of lipstick at the drugstore.

What was the moment or event that made you realize you needed to start getting your money together?

There was no one specific moment. I've always been frugal, which probably has a lot to do with my upbringing. I would say once I had more income at my first full-time job, and my then-boyfriend (now husband) started working full-time too, we had a surplus we felt we needed to put to use. So we learned as much as we could about personal finance, came across the idea of FIRE, and put most of our excess money into stock market index funds soon after.

Let’s Talk Money

Net Worth: My combined net worth with my husband is more than 25 times our annual expenses, but we haven't disclosed a number publicly yet.

Debt: I've never had debt of any kind, beyond credit cards which are paid in full monthly. My husband has also never had any debt.

Monthly Expenses: Health insurance, condo association dues, food, transportation, and utilities are our biggest bills. Everything else combined is pretty insignificant in comparison. We don't pay for any kind of television or streaming services, and most of our entertainment comes from free outdoor activities and hanging out with friends.

Savings Rate: When working full-time, our savings rate floated between 60-85%.

Investing strategy: Total stock and bond market index funds have always been our go-to investments, but we do own a single rental unit now (it's the condo we used to live in ourselves).

Your FI/RE Story

FI/RE number: We could do a lean FIRE on less than $500k invested, or a fatter FIRE on more like $750-800k. Truthfully, we don't pay much attention to these numbers any more because we still have a tiny amount of freelance work that pays more than all of our bills.

FI/RE type: We already made it to FIRE, but we still do a few hours a week of freelance work that we enjoy, which in turn allows us to cashflow our life without drawing down our portfolio at all.

Years until FI/RE: We're FI now, but we have a few freelance gigs we've continued to spend a few hours on each week because we like them. Plus, that little freelance work actually covers more than all of our expenses, allowing us to let our investments continue to grow untouched.

FI/RE location: My husband and I were both born and raised in Florida (we're high school sweethearts), and we currently own two condos in the state (one in our college town and one on the beach).

How did you first hear about FI/RE?

When first learning about investing, the 4% rule made sense, but it wasn't until I saw a news article about Mr. Money Mustache that everything really clicked. He was a few years ahead of us, and he made a lot more money than we did at the time. But his story kinda proved the concept for us. I sent my husband that news article from my work email with something like, "This sounds like what we've been talking about." The rest is history.

Why do you want to reach Financial Independence/Retire Early? What keeps you motivated on this long journey?

As I said, my first financial goal was not having to worry about small "just because" purchases, like a new lipstick. Growing up, those kinds of things were a big deal. But I didn't realize just how low that bar was, honestly. Learning about investing and compound interest gave saving money more meaning, and it changed my outlook on personal finance. We started tracking our net worth almost immediately after discovering FIRE, and seeing that number increase each month was motivation enough. I went from wanting the freedom from worrying about money to wanting to be free to do whatever I wanted in life. That was powerful.

In what ways have you cut back your spending? In what ways have you started mindfully spending more?

I've always been frugal, and it has a lot to do with growing up on less. It hasn't been difficult for me to keep our expenses low, and that's where a lot of our saving power came from. More recently, we moved to the beach, which was an unnecessary but worthwhile additional expense.

What do friends and family have to say when you tell them your plan to achieve FI/RE? Are they supportive?

I don't think most people understood what we were doing or believed it would work during the 8 years we were working toward FIRE. That's not to say anyone was UNSUPPORTIVE, but it was just a totally new concept that was hard for others to fully grasp. I will say that the tone definitely shifted once we quit our jobs and start living each day for ourselves. It's led to a lot more honest money conversations and helping friends and family chase down their own goals more efficiently. That's also why we started our blog.

Are you doing anything to achieve FI/RE faster?

At one point, I think I was working three different gigs: my full-time job, waitressing on the weekends, and doing some freelance social media work. We also have run a photography business as a side hustle throughout college and even now, but most of our business is just word of mouth. Any time we were working full-time, we were also doing photography occasionally on the weekends and flipping random finds (like electronics or furniture) to increase our income and therefore what we were able to save that month.

What does retiring early (or financial independence) mean to you? What will you do once you FI/RE?

Reaching financial independence allows us to travel more (although not as much since COVID hit), and that was one thing we were really looking forward to. We started our blog during our last big road trip, visiting every National Park in the US during 2019, and we've been pouring a lot of time and love into that during the last year and a half. Our goal is to help educate younger folks, who have the most to gain from learning about FIRE so early, because we saw what a difference that made in our own lives. We did move to the beach last year so we could feel like we're somewhere exotic without traveling. Now, our daily walks are much more picaresque, and we have lots of fun, free, outdoor activities to enjoy.

FI/RE Advice

Any advice you'd give to someone who wants to pursue FI/RE, especially if it seemed hard or unattainable?

Recognize that the biggest wins are going to come from cuts to the biggest spending categories, things like housing and transportation, and less so from the occasional latte (which might be worth cutting, but it's less impactful). Also, realize that you can be really dedicated about cutting all excess spending for just a couple years to stack up cash super fast, and then let off the gas a little if you feel like you need to. The choices you make don't have to be permanent. Life is fluid.

What is the biggest thing you learned about money on this journey?

All money is money. The imaginary savings "buckets" -- for vacation money, fun money, gift-giving money, retirement money, etc. -- are just that, imaginary. That's what I like about tracking net worth, all assets minus all liabilities. Your net worth is a holistic view of ALL your money, and knowing that number is empowering. You may find that you're more financially solvent than you thought, which could help you leave a toxic workplace or launch a side hustle sooner.

Have you made any money mistakes or learned any lessons on the way that you wish you knew before?

The first step we took into investing was to visit a financial advisor at our local bank. He was super helpful and friendly, but he also sold us into an actively managed bond fund with a ridiculous load fee because it got him a big commission. We were like 22 and didn't know how terrible that advice was until we read about index funds. Big "d'oh" moment. That's not to say that every financial advisor is going to give you bad advice, but you should always do your own research too.

What are your favorite FI/RE resources that you'd recommend to someone just getting started?

JL Collins' The Simple Path to Wealth is an amazing book, and all the content is also on his site for free, which is great for beginners.

Shameless plug: Our Financial Roadmap is just six steps to FIRE, which can be done in as little as 10 years (we did it in 8), and focuses on finding ways to enjoy the journey. We actually include taking travel sabbaticals in our roadmap because going hard toward FIRE can often lead to burnout, and sabbaticals are a way to reset, clear your mind, and demonstrate what early retirement can look like for you. All of our resources are free.


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